You know that you have joy when you fall down your home stairs after a 12.5-hour shift and can't do anything but laugh at yourself. No anger. No frustration. Just embarrassment and pure joy. That moment revealed something I had spent years praying for. Five years ago, I intentionally chose healing over survival. I stopped expecting other people to make me happy, surrendered my pain to God, and began the difficult work of becoming whole.

And if I’m honest, I still wanted to be chosen. But God asked me the hardest question of all: Why am I not enough for you? What began as twenty-one days of intentionality became a lifelong journey of self-love. I discovered what it meant to choose myself—not for validation, not to be seen, but simply because I am already loved beyond measure. Choose yourself. Every single day.

What I share with you today is a real-time revelation of God’s love and grace in my life. The first three years of my 30s have felt like...

When I was growing up, my mother said a lot of things. Some of them I received right away. Others I’ve only come to understand through...

With so much to express after a three-year hiatus from writing, I feel compelled to simply ramble. And yet, part of me knows that not...

A lot can change in 3 years. A lot. And a lot has. As for those who have been following me and my story since the beginning, let me first...

My eldest is just nine years old. And, while I assumed that I had a little time left to share with her the trials and tribulations of...

So, we all know that being a mother can force you up on your toes. But what if the idea of you remaining in a constant state of...

Because, Mama What You Say is Gold "and, forsake not your mother's teaching, for they are a graceful garland for your head..."

“I love those who love me, and those who seek me find me” (Proverbs 8:17). Only until recently, I’ve come to truly love myself, — in the...

"Then Jesus answered and said to them, “Most assuredly, I say to you, the Son can do nothing of Himself, but what He sees the Father do;...

"Be self-controlled and alert. Your enemy the devil prowls around like a roaring lion looking for someone to devour..." (1 Pet. 5:8-9)....

“Therefore everyone who hears these words of mine and puts them into practice is like a wise man who built his house on the rock. The...

“Forget the former things; do not dwell on the past. See, I am doing a new thing! Now it springs up; do you not perceive it? I am making...

“Hope deferred makes the heart sick, but a longing fulfilled is a tree of life” (Proverbs 13:12). So, listen right, usually my blogs are...

"The wise woman builds her house, but with her own hands the foolish one tears hers down" (Proverbs 14:1). It is with a full heart that I...